Have you ever found yourself in a moment where life seemed like a whirlwind of uncertainties, with new challenges appearing at every turn?
Maybe it was following a significant life event, like a divorce or a career change, or maybe it was simply the culmination of various life shifts happening simultaneously.
Well, for me, it was the aftermath of a divorce, a period where I found myself at a crossroads, redefining who I wanted to become in the next chapter of my life.
On top of that, I was also adding a new goal to my plate…owning a home.
I wasn’t just looking to purchase a nice new bag or revamp my wardrobe, I was about to embark on one of the biggest decisions of my life. I was about to make one of the biggest PURCHASES of my life – all by myself!
But because I was able to tap into the right mindset and shift into an abundant way of thinking, I felt ready.
So you may be wondering, with so much happening in life, how did you trust that everything was going to work out?
Well, I probably wondered the same thing too at the moment, but it was simply keeping the faith that it was going to happen.
I had to surrender.
I had gotten to the point where I knew how to adjust to the right mindset to welcome abundance.
I knew how to keep up with visualization exercises.
I knew how to tap into my happy place and dial-up those high-frequency emotions.
I knew how to take action and reach out to the right people who could help me make the best decisions.
So now that I was dialed into the right frequency and in vibrational alignment with my dreams and aspirations, it was time to take a deep breath and let it all go.
You see, you must learn to surrender to keep the faith that you are doing everything you need to be doing in this moment and that the Universe is looking out for you.
Which is why surrendering is actually the hardest step of all.
Surrender requires us to be vulnerable. And being vulnerable just doesn’t come naturally to a lot of us, and I know that it didn’t come naturally to me at first either.
So, I want you to remember 3 very important things to help you understand how much the power of surrender and keeping the faith toward this goal really holds.
#1 - Everything is happening at its own diving timing.
That means when your goal is ready to be revealed, it was meant to happen at that exact moment for you.
#2 - You must surrender to how your goal shows up.
And what I mean by this is, very rarely will your goal show up in exactly the way you think it will.
Spending too much time focusing or worrying about how you think it’s going to happen actually blocks the flow between you and what you’re emitting to the Universe.
So you must surrender to receiving your goal in any shape or form.
And #3 - Remember that everything that is happening is happening for your highest good.
So no matter the roadblocks, hiccups, or missteps we encounter along the way, everything that shows up for us in our lives is actually happening for our highest good.
This is how we’re able to learn, grow, and expand ourselves to become exactly who we need to be to fully embody the future life we are creating.
You see, keeping the faith or believing that your current goal will reveal itself the way you want is the final piece to the manifesting puzzle – and also the most crucial.
When you begin to change your thoughts, your emotions, and your actions, and allow yourself to surrender, this is when you become the energetic magnet to the future you are designing for yourself at this very moment!
To help you learn how to lean into surrender, I want to provide you with a few different exercises you can practice over the weekend:
Gratitude - this is something you should always remember to practice, but if you find yourself feeling a bit stuck or lost, tapping into your gratitude is an excellent way to shift into a higher frequency.
You can practice mindfulness - Taking a moment to be fully present and mindful of your feelings can help ease any built-up pressure, as you’re allowing yourself the space to be open and embrace uncertainty in the most tranquil way.
And then there’s meditation - Meditation is something I practice every day. And those times when I’m just not feeling like myself or need to reset, I’ll carve out a few minutes to meditate to help bring me back to the center.
(One of my favorite guided meditations is this visualization exercise that my team and I created specifically to guide you into a relaxing state and it primes your subconscious mind for more money and abundance. The meditation is completely free so click here if you want to try it tonight).
Again, to this day, these are all techniques I practice regularly and have had a tremendous influence on my ability to surrender to the process, and I hope it does the same for you.
Because I know firsthand how much, not only going after your goals but actually achieving them can really change your life and keep you on the upward trajectory to keep going after more.