Most people have it wrong.

They think that by gathering more stuff, they'll finally find happiness.

When in reality, true happiness comes from letting go.

Here are 4 things to let go of that will make you a happier, more peaceful person:

1. Let go of the need to impress others.

If you're a human being, chances are you care about what other people think of you.

After all - we are naturally social creatures!

And with the popularity of social networks as our primary means of communication and daily life, this only increases our need for approval.

But if you find yourself spending too much of your time, money or energy trying to impress other people and get their approval, you're not being true to YOU.

There's no need to try and be something you're not, because who you are right now is FABULOUS!

Instead, focus on living the most authentic version of yourself.

When you fully embrace who you are and share it with others, you'll find that people will appreciate how REAL you are and will flock to you effortlessly. In turn, this will allow you to become happier with yourself and with the world around you.

2. Let go of the need to be right.

Sometimes when we feel we've been mistreated or misunderstood by someone, we can get caught up into wanting that person to admit they've wronged us.

And we want an apology!

Or at least acknowledgement that we are right and they're wrong.

The problem is that we don't all see things from the same perspective. In your world, you're right... but in their world, so are they.

There are definitely times where an apology is necessary.

But most other times, rather than allowing feelings of negativity to take root inside you and start spilling over into other areas of your life, it may be best to ask yourself this:

"Do I want to be right? Or do I want to be happy?"

Often it's just our ego that keeps us holding onto past resentments and hurtful words. Instead, consider letting go of the desire to be right and you'll find you can be happier and more peaceful.

3. Let go of the desire to gossip.

I've heard it said that gossip is just a cheap way to make yourself feel good, and I have to agree.

We all know that gossiping about other people is... well, not so good.

But when the people around you are doing it, it can be easy to slip into doing it.

Consider though that the quality of your life depends on the quality of the conversations you have.

If you want to live a more fulfilling life, start by embracing the power of your word. Your voice is powerful! And what you have to say makes a difference.

Be committed to having more positive conversations about things that matter... not people... and you'll be surprised how quickly you'll brighten your outlook on life.

As don Miguel Ruiz says in The Four Agreements, “Be impeccable with your word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.”

4. Let go of the past.

It's easy to dwell on the past, especially when the future is so unknown.

Looking in the past can feel safe; we know what has happened and we know what we could do to change things... if only we had the chance.

The truth is though that you cannot change the past. Remind yourself that our eyes are placed in the front of our heads so that we look ahead, not behind. Let your eyes guide you by looking forward and with this, you will find it easier to be happier.

Your past has served its purpose - it has brought you to the place you are today and made you the person you are now. And who you are right now is absolutely perfect.

Be grateful for your experiences, but know that NOW is all you have. So do your best to enjoy each moment and give yourself the gift of being present!

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